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I love going to all kinds of games, whether it be basketball, golf, football; but my favorite is baseball. There is something comforting about the game where its action breathes in for every pitch, anticipating what could be, then out, releasing the tension. Such ebbs and flows make it possible to follow the action while maintaining a conversation. I would go as far as to argue that going to a game is more of a social event than sporting for the attendees. And if you want to get the most out of the experience, I have a few recommendations.
Don’t draw attention
Going to a game dressed as your team colors’ version of Elvis gets attention (yes, I see this), but I doubt many view that with respect. Most probably wonder why someone would do such a thing. Which is hardly the impression a gentleman should convey. Instead, blend into the crowd by wearing your team’s colors discreetly (personal preference for throw-back or vintage jerseys), show up on time, and find your seats.
Add to the ambiance
Much like a bar or a coffee shop, the surroundings of the game matter. Don’t be the one that detracts from another’s experience. A simple example where this is the case are the so called “die-hard” fans that fail to sit “because of their passion” while yelling at the participants (trust me, they can’t hear you). This makes others uncomfortable and even steals the ability for them to watch the game they travelled to see. Instead, be the opposite of that fan by standing when everyone else does, only leave your seat at breaks in the action, cheer when appropriate, leave your phone in your pocket, and don’t make a mess.
Beware of flying objects
Lastly, pay attention. Most games have objects flying around. They could come your way. If you are attending with a date or children, the best location for you to sit is in between them and the action. This will give you an opportunity to be the first to stop anything coming your way, and if you do, you will also catch some respect. Who knows, that object may be a hot dog shot from a cannon, and – as Humphrey Bogart famously said – “A hot dog at the ballpark is better than a steak at the Ritz”.
